As the leader of the Albuquerque Drupal Users group there is a constant push and pull between myself and Karen Arnold, the leader of the Albuquerque Wordpress group. We both love our platforms and do great work in them. I also can claim responsibility for part of the problems, as I was the one that decided to have our meetups on the second Thursday of the month, which falls directly on the same time that their monthly meeting happens. Mea culpa.